| 釋義 |
治一經(jīng)損一經(jīng)zhì yì jīng sǔn yì jīngplease some and offend others
? 總而言之，為人是難做的； 若太老實(shí)了，沒有個(gè)機(jī)變，公婆又嫌太老實(shí)了，家里人也不怕； 若有些機(jī)變，未免又‘～’。(《紅樓夢(mèng)》928) Well,it’s hard to please everybody. If you’re too honest and don’t know any tricks,your father and mother-in-law will think you a simpleton and the household won’t respect you. If you’re full of tricks,you’ll please some and offend others. |